take me somewhere where i will meet new people and some of them will fall in love with me
im breathing fine but i dont feel like im getting any oxygen??????????
Anonymous whispered into ass:My crush has now been going for almost 2 years and is on a guy I work with (and is technically my boss if he's on the same shift as me) and I'm either shit at hinting or he's oblivious and he can be kind of a lazy dick at work but he's also really sweet when dealing with people? And he makes me laugh all the time, even when he's annoying BUT today he asked if I want to go to his mate's gig with him and I don't know if IT'S because it's at the closest thing to my local pub BUT I AM EXCITE!
ahhh that sounds so cute that sounds like hes finally picked up the hints maybe???
i hope so i hope you have a wonderful night and that the music is good and you get to kiss him
if you can put up with his laziness for two years as is i imagine youd be an unstoppable couple if/when you get together
my mum wants me to have the sex talk with my little brother???
now that i finally have blueish hair i feel like if i met my younger self theyd be proud of what we became
My mother once told me that trauma is like Lord of the Rings. You go through this crazy, life-altering thing that almost kills you (like say having to drop the one ring into Mount Doom), and that thing by definition cannot possibly be understood by someone who hasn’t gone through it. They can sympathize sure, but they’ll never really know, and more than likely they’ll expect you to move on from the thing fairly quickly. And they can’t be blamed, people are just like that, but that’s not how it works.
Some lucky people are like Sam. They can go straight home, get married, have a whole bunch of curly headed Hobbit babies and pick up their gardening right where they left off, content to forget the whole thing and live out their days in peace. Lots of people however, are like Frodo, and they don’t come home the same person they were when they left, and everything is more horrible and more hard then it ever was before. The old wounds sting and the ghost of the weight of the one ring still weighs heavy on their minds, and they don’t fit in at home anymore, so they get on boats go sailing away to the Undying West to look for the sort of peace that can only come from within. Frodos can’t cope, and most of us are Frodos when we start out.
But if we move past the urge to hide or lash out, my mother always told me, we can become Pippin and Merry. They never ignored what had happened to them, but they were malleable and receptive to change. They became civic leaders and great storytellers; they we able to turn all that fear and anger and grief into narratives that others could delight in and learn from, and they used the skills they had learned in battle to protect their homeland. They were fortified by what had happened to them, they wore it like armor and used it to their advantage.
It is our trauma that turns us into guardians, my mother told me, it is suffering that strengthens our skin and softens our hearts, and if we learn to live with the ghosts of what had been done to us, we just may be able to save others from the same fate.
i want to do that can we do that
yes but i dont know how to attract interesting strangers